After repeated sexual violations in a previous relationship, and as I was coming into a new, healthy relationship, sex felt unsafe for me.

I can’t talk about who I am as a sexual woman without talking about my sexual trauma. The sexual violation I experienced as a teenager deeply informed the way I see and experience sex, so much that it’s impossible for me to separate the two.

Ev'Yan's skipping this week's episode to focus on being a boss ass bitch and putting the final touches on her soon-to-be-released workshop, Sexting Myself. But don't worry, she gives you something to do in the meantime.

When I was young, I was completely ignorant about sex.

I used to think that selfie-taking was superficial and immature. Most articles I’ve read on the subject have touted as much.

And then I met Allyee.

If you follow me on Instagram, you know that I’ve been posting some pretty risque photos for most of the year. One of them recently got removed (again!), and it’s got me thinking all over again about why I do this.

I adore my friends. What I adore even more is knowing that they are living happy and fulfilled sex lives.

I know I can’t be the only one struggling right now.

Last we spoke, I told you about how my husband and I have been dating and having sex with other people, also known as polyamory.

I don’t know why it’s taken me so long to talk about this.

Last we spoke, I told you about how I’m trying to make masturbating more of a habit (which has been going really, really well, by the way!).

One of the first things that I got warned about when I entered a committed relationship was the reality that at some point in time, every relationship will go through a rut. Specifically, a sex rut.

For the last few months, I’ve been on a devoted quest to step even more into my erotic power by uncovering and exploring my inner slut—this audacious, sexually proud woman who shows off her sexual body and is totally unashamed of her sexuality.

Last week, I performed in the Vagina Monologues in front of more than 150 people, and what happened on that stage transformed me.

Ev'Yan Whitney and her husband, @JonathanMead, demystify masculine and feminine polarity and discuss how your relationship and sex life can change when you pay more attention to these inner energies. Also: Jonathan gave Ev'Yan a mini-orgasm, which was captured on this recording. :)

A conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney and her partner of almost ten years about how their past sexless marriage and the process they went through to heal it. Jon interviews Ev'Yan as the two explore their individual sexual liberation journeys and as a married couple.

A very personal story about one woman's journey to sexual liberation after being a victim of sexual trauma. Ev'Yan reads the words of former client who wished to share her experience anonymously under the name Ingrid.

A candid intimate conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney & her previous client, Emily, where they chit-chat about her (Emily's) sexual liberation journey & how she came home to her body. The themes of trust, barriers and shame around belly fat highlight Emily's path that leads her to celibacy.

A candid intimate conversation between Ev'Yan Whitney & her previous client, Kate, where they chit-chat about her (Kate's) sexual liberation journey & how the sex is now. They travel through Kate's journey from feeling like "one of the boys" and her resistance towards femininity to understanding the strength in being sensitive.