I want to help you reconnect to your sensual body and uncover your authentic sexuality.

For the first time in five years, I’m opening my sexuality doula practice for a limited number of 1:1 sessions.

Rather than working together for many months, we’ll use this one session to dive straight into what’s most alive in you right now. Together, we’ll look at the relationship you have with your sexuality and body to see what steps you can take to feel and find connection and pleasure within yourself.

Some questions we might explore in our session:

  • What does it look like for me to prioritize my own pleasure?

  • How can I be more in my body and not so much in my head during sex?

  • What changes do I need to make in my life so that I feel more connected to my senses?

  • How do I ask for what I need and want in my sexual relationships?

  • How can I reimagine my relationship with sex that honors my asexuality?

  • How can I become more literate in the voice of my body and what feels good in it?

  • How do I shift narratives of shame so that I can feel joyful and confident in my sensuality?

  • What steps do I need to take to start to feel more sexually free?

During this 90-minute session, we’ll rewrite the scripts you’ve been given about your sexuality, allow your deepest desires to be expressed, and we’ll dream up new stories that will help you to feel safe, joyous, and free in your unique expression on your own terms.

And I’ll be an empathetic witness and sensual guide, holding you throughout.

Who these sessions are for:

This is for you if . . .

  • You’ve done a lot of talk therapy and read a lot of books but you want to actually embody your unique sensuality and/or sexuality.

  • You’re ready to begin your sexual liberation journey but don’t know where to start.

  • You want to shift internalized messages of shame, disconnection, and confusion about your sensual self.

  • You feel disconnected from the needs, wants, and desires of your body and want to find your way back to yourself.

  • You have a sense of what’s keeping you stuck but don’t know how to move forward.

  • You're looking for ways to expand your understanding of sensuality in your life, with practices and conversations that center your pleasure.

This is not for you if . . .

  • You have acute trauma that’s currently activated and need support unpacking and understanding it.

  • You’re looking for quick fixes, easy resources, or magic tips to solve your problems.

  • You’re not prepared to show up and be an active participant in your healing and liberation.

  • You have no idea who you want to be or what you want to step into.

  • You’re looking for something to replace professional therapy or medical advice.

I am not taking clients at this time.

Please join my list to get updated about when I’m opening my books again.

In our session, I will help you embody the phrase Pleasure is my birthright with practices and resources to reconnect you with ease, softness, and joy.

What you’ll receive during our time together:

  • Gentle breathwork to help you tune into and awaken your senses

  • Powerful questions to stoke your curiosity and help you reimagine who you are as a sensual and/or sexual being

  • Exploration of the old stories keeping you disconnected and how to release them

  • Somatic practices that’ll help you locate the needs, wants, and desires in + of your body

  • Customized practice suggestions to help you connect with your sensuality and softness

  • A recording of our session and resources to keep you after the session ends

You’ll be given clarity about what’s keeping you dissociated, permission to explore the nuances of who you are, and resources to help you reclaim your sensual self in all its beautiful expressions.

The nitty gritty details:

  • One 90-minute virtual session (happening on Zoom)

  • Space is very limited and based on my availability

  • Now booking for January/February 2023

I am not taking clients at this time.

Please join my list to get updated about when I’m opening my books again.

Big love from past clients

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“I am in absolute awe of the transformation and blossoming that has taken place for me while working with Ev'Yan. It's been literal magic. I have discovered parts of myself that I was longing to connect with. And I am more confident, body-conscious and tapped into my sensual power than ever before. [Ev’Yan] created the safest, most empowering space for me to explore my deepest desires, and has helped me completely redefine my relationship with my body. I am endlessly grateful for this experience!”

— Che Che L.

“Our work together truly changed me in ways I didn't know was possible. It opened my heart to the possibility of desire. It opened my heart to the possibility of creating a new connection with my life partner. It created space for me to heal my relationship to myself, to my desire, and how I take care of myself. I am so grateful for my time with you! It has been a pleasure.”

— Casey A.

“My work with Ev'Yan has been a completely transformational experience. I never expected to have such an incredible outcome after working with someone in such a small space of time, but Ev'Yan's approach is so beautiful, so understanding and encouraging, I felt able to open up in ways I would never have felt comfortable opening up to a stranger before. I have come away from my work with Ev'Yan with insight, healing and life lessons, but I have also come away from them with a dear friend.”

— Hannah W.

“The biggest transformation [in working with you] was changing my perspective about sexuality. I went from feeling so much shame and fear to feeling very curious and open. I'm able to talk about my sexuality and experience (or lack of) without embarrassment. I feel softer towards myself and more connected to my body. I never thought I'd feel confident navigating my sexuality, but I can honestly say I do now.”

— Bianca N.

“This work has been so transformative. While I initially had the goal to feel more comfortable in my queerness, our work together has been more expansive than just that. I cut ties to things that no longer served me, released old stories, and planted seeds for a version of myself that I couldn't dream up in the beginning of our work. I feel like I can breathe again!”

— Saqera K.

“Working with Ev'Yan was the absolute best investment I could have ever done for myself. I would recommend this work to anyone. I understand my deepest desires, not just on a sexual level but on an emotional level, a body level, a soul level. I feel more confident in myself than I ever have before and that confidence has integrated itself into every aspect of my life. From my relationship with myself, with others and my career, it has truly been life-changing.”

— Marina M.

“Before working with Ev'Yan, I didn't feel 100% comfortable with my body or my sexuality. I had always had a pretty good sex life but I didn't feel like a woman who fully accepted and embraced myself or my desires. I didn't feel at peace within my body. Ev'Yan guided me to find the truth of who I am and made it safe for me to uncover aspects of my sexuality and desires in a way that felt totally safe and natural. Since working with Ev'Yan, I have freed myself from the old baggage that kept me from fully expressing myself sexually. I highly encourage you to work with [them] if you get a chance.”

— Meghan K.

“Working with Ev'Yan was both a pleasure and a gift. [They were] everything I could have imagined, considering I have been a long time fan and follower of [their] work. By having these open and honest discussions I began tearing down the walls of shame and discomfort and ultimately discovered a voice that I never knew existed with such strength. I am truly blessed to have spent the time I did working with [them] and finding that I am a truly sexually liberated woman at the core of my being.”

— Carla M.

I am not taking clients at this time.

Please join my list to get updated about when I’m opening my books again.